Published March 30, 2009 06:13 am - Melissa Wilson admits she would have given up a long time ago if it wasn't for her three children.
Paraplegic: Woman seeks home for herself, children
By Karen Blackledge
The Daily Item
MOORESBURG -- Melissa Wilson admits she would have given up a long time ago if it weren't for her three children.
"I can't stop. If I didn't have the kids and the support I have, I would not have kept as motivated. The kids mean the world to me, and I want the best for them. If they ever reach a hard point in their life like I have, I want them to never give up," she said, sobbing, and adding, "I'm like waterworks."
Wilson, 26, has been paralyzed from the waist down since an accident nearly two years ago.
Driving a GMC Envoy she had acquired just days before, the former licensed practical nurse remembers the right front tire pulling as the vehicle started to leave the road. She pulled the wheel to the left, causing it to roll. The vehicle flipped several times before stopping. Wilson, having taken off her seat belt earlier to reach around to get one of her kids something, was thrown out. She landed in the middle of Route 642, near Mooresburg.
Wilson's children also were hurt. Sydney, 7, suffered a concussion and required 42 stitches on her face. Logan, 4, was bruised, and Gabriella, 2, had a fractured right femur. Logan was released the day of the accident, and his sisters stayed a couple of days.
Wilson is trying to find a home for herself and her children. They need a one-story with at least three bedrooms.
"I want to be able to tuck my kids in at night," said Wilson, who takes care of her kids, including cooking for them. She gets help with hygiene and in reaching high places from Community Resources for Independence workers.
Montour County officials have been trying to help. Transit director Amanda Boyer "has gone above and beyond for me," said Wilson, who uses the transit service to go to appointments and to take Logan to Head Start. Sydney is in first grade.
Wilson, who volunteers at her son's school and anywhere she can, has been looking for an at-home job.
The family is staying with Wilson's 86-year-old father, Arthur Wilson, in Liberty Township.
"It's a small house, and it's rough on him," she said. "He likes it quiet, and it's certainly not here."
Wilson tried Beaver Place and Allied Kear Apartments, but the first-floor places have only two bedrooms.
At a recent Montour County commissioners' meeting, Chairman Trevor Finn announced Wilson is trying to find housing after exhausting avenues through agencies in both Montour and Columbia counties. She hopes to find a home in Montour County because that's where she has lived most of her life and her family lives here.
"She needs a hand, and she isn't looking for a handout," said Finn of Wilson, who has worked since she was 12 and put herself through LPN school. "She is looking for a place where she can get in and out of and her kids will be safe."
She contacted Habitat for Humanity but was told she would have to wait a year for a home.