The Daily Item, Sunbury, PA


February 22, 2013

The Politics of Giving at the Office

Q: Our company didn't make sales quotas in 2011, so all 2012 bonuses and awards were frozen. Our department had stockpiled 12 $25 restaurant gift card awards before the freeze. Our director gave three cards to each of four team leaders (including me), to distribute as we want, saying that was "fairest." The teams vary in size, so everyone on the smallest three-person team gets an award, while one-third of my 10 team members get one. The cards are to be publicly awarded at our monthly division "all-hands" meeting. How do I motivate my team when they see another team recognizing everyone regardless of performance? Even if I could afford to buy more cards, I'm not allowed to present them at the all-hands meeting. I thought of a team lunch, but I can't afford it and can't expense it. How do I handle this diplomatically?

A: You know your team members; would most of them prefer to share a meager but guaranteed award or compete for an individual, less meager prize? If the former, see if you can combine the cards to treat everyone to a takeout lunch (creative spin for the meeting: "Because their contributions are greater than the sum of their quotas").

Otherwise, pick your top three sellers, and swallow your dismay about the equal-but-disproportionate prize distribution. If you seem bitter, your workers will be, too.

Good news: Most workers aren't truly motivated by free breadsticks. Most prefer a boss who regularly acknowledges their effort with praise, gratitude and lobbying on their behalf at review time. And maybe the occasional box of doughnuts.

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