The Post has provided me with my livelihood for the last 20 years. Although I've had opportunities to leave, I've stayed even when more money and stock options were on the table. I just kept remembering what my grandmother Big Mama used to say: "Stick with what you know."
Now, like so many other employees, what we know keeps changing. If you aren't forced to change jobs, the company changes hands.
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